Several years ago, when my daughters were very young, we planted a dogwood tree for Mother's Day. It was a relatively young tree which stood about six feet tall after we planted it. I had prepared the soil like I was supposed to do before planting. Added some special tree fertilizer. Put plenty of mulch around the base to keep the moisture in. Finally, I staked the tree on three sides to make sure it grew straight and to give it plenty of support.
A couple of years later, the tree had outgrown its tethers so I took them off. Within a couple months of removing the stakes, we had a nasty thunderstorm. The tree snapped off at the trunk during the storm. I was heartsick because the tree was just coming into its own. The blooms that Spring had begun to fill the branches. It was too late in the year to plant another dogwood, so I just decided to wait until the next Spring to replace it.
But something interesting happened. From the base of the tree new sprigs began to grow. I watched it all summer and kept it watered. By the next Spring, the little sprigs had grown to be about a foot tall. I trimmed it a little and decided to let it continue to grow. My neighbor thought I was nuts nurturing the small new growth that had emerged. But it continued to grow and develop.
A friend of mine shared with me about planting several new young trees around his newly built house. He had staked everyone only to lose everyone just as I had done. When he went to replace them, a tree expert had told him not to stake the trees because it actually weakens their trunks. They become dependent on the stakes for stability.
Paul says in this passage to be rooted in Christ. Or as the Living Bible says, "let your roots grow down deep and draw your nourishment from Christ." Many people don't do that. They become dependent on the stakes of a pastor, teacher, church, group or tradition. And if they're removed from that environment or the pastor moves or something changes in their church then they're susceptible to blowing over in a storm.
The smartest thing I did as a planter was to prepare the soil well so that when my tree blew over it was able to come back stronger from its roots and stand on its own. The dumbest thing I did as a planter was to make it dependent on the tethers. My little tree grew back stronger than ever and within a few years was continuing to grow and filling the branches with gorgeous blossoms each Spring.
God, help me to grow my roots deep into you, not into men or books or methods or traditions or even my church. I want to draw my nourishment from you. Lord, give me the wisdom to lead my church to do the same thing and not depend on me or our methods or programs or the worship service.
Saturday, June 30, 2007
Friday, June 29, 2007
Daily Reflections on Rom. 2:1-4 (Intolerance)
We hear a lot about "tolerance" these days. It can be pretty confusing. We expect certain things like food, cars, electrical equipment, airlines to meet certain standards or to fall within certain tolerances, otherwise we demand action be taken. So in some cases we insistent on little to no tolerances. I've put enough boxed furniture pieces together to experience the frustration of intolerances.
Yet, when it comes to philosophies, lifestyles, beliefs and corresponding actions/attitudes, we're supposed to be tolerant. Each to his/her own. Every opinion, every lifestyle, every philosophy is to be equally accepted. Really? What if each worker at the plant decided to drill holes wherever they believed the hole should go on a piece to be assembled? Guarantee that furniture wouldn't go together. What if each doctor decided to treat a certain disease however they felt like, ignoring the treatment that had been proven to work? What if someone believed driving on the left side of the road worked best for them because they were left handed?
I'm afraid in our effort to be nonjudgmental, we've misconstrued tolerance and truth. Telling the truth isn't being judgmental, it's the truth. I can believe the moon is made of green cheese, but that doesn't mean it's true. And sharing that truth with me isn't being intolerant or judgmental. As a friend of mine once said, "Truth is truth even is no one believes it." For centuries people believed the world was flat, but that didn't make it true.
Having said all that, a judgmental attitude or spirit, according to God, is inappropriate. We're all sinners. Nobody's perfect. Everyone is in need of God's grace. As a follower of Christ, we should be the first to recognize that we are all in need of grace. And because we've received grace, we should be the first to offer grace. Some have said that The Church is the only organization that shoots its wounded. Sad to say there is ample evidence to support that. But God is not about condemning or finger pointing or vilification. He's about restoration and renewal and recovery.
Acceptance and tolerance are really two different things. Jesus accepted and loved and ministered to people living in aberrant behavior patterns without tolerating their lifestyles. He offered His grace and a way out. He didn't cut them off or write them off. In fact, the only people He got after hard and criticized were those who considered themselves the spiritually or religiously elite. Interestingly, Jesus criticized the religiously pious and extended a hand to the sexually immoral, the cheats, the tax collectors, the party animal and others.
God, thank you for offering your grace to me, the chief of sinners. Crush my judgmental spirit. Allow me to be full of your truth and grace and to extend both to the people I encounter.
Yet, when it comes to philosophies, lifestyles, beliefs and corresponding actions/attitudes, we're supposed to be tolerant. Each to his/her own. Every opinion, every lifestyle, every philosophy is to be equally accepted. Really? What if each worker at the plant decided to drill holes wherever they believed the hole should go on a piece to be assembled? Guarantee that furniture wouldn't go together. What if each doctor decided to treat a certain disease however they felt like, ignoring the treatment that had been proven to work? What if someone believed driving on the left side of the road worked best for them because they were left handed?
I'm afraid in our effort to be nonjudgmental, we've misconstrued tolerance and truth. Telling the truth isn't being judgmental, it's the truth. I can believe the moon is made of green cheese, but that doesn't mean it's true. And sharing that truth with me isn't being intolerant or judgmental. As a friend of mine once said, "Truth is truth even is no one believes it." For centuries people believed the world was flat, but that didn't make it true.
Having said all that, a judgmental attitude or spirit, according to God, is inappropriate. We're all sinners. Nobody's perfect. Everyone is in need of God's grace. As a follower of Christ, we should be the first to recognize that we are all in need of grace. And because we've received grace, we should be the first to offer grace. Some have said that The Church is the only organization that shoots its wounded. Sad to say there is ample evidence to support that. But God is not about condemning or finger pointing or vilification. He's about restoration and renewal and recovery.
Acceptance and tolerance are really two different things. Jesus accepted and loved and ministered to people living in aberrant behavior patterns without tolerating their lifestyles. He offered His grace and a way out. He didn't cut them off or write them off. In fact, the only people He got after hard and criticized were those who considered themselves the spiritually or religiously elite. Interestingly, Jesus criticized the religiously pious and extended a hand to the sexually immoral, the cheats, the tax collectors, the party animal and others.
God, thank you for offering your grace to me, the chief of sinners. Crush my judgmental spirit. Allow me to be full of your truth and grace and to extend both to the people I encounter.
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Daily Reflections on Mk. 12:28-34 (Running on Empty)
"Loving God, Loving Others," is a phrase you hear thrown around in church circles a lot these days. It's true that these principles are the simplification of the greatest two commandments. But when we say, "love God, love others," what does that really mean? The abbreviated version of what Jesus said can potentially minimize the intention of the command.
When asked what the greatest command was, Jesus responded by highlighting the majesty, glory and supreme authority of God. He then moves onto loving God. But Jesus' command isn't casual love. The love Jesus calls for involves every element of our being; ALL our heart, ALL our soul, ALL our mind, ALL our strength. Loving God as Jesus commands requires a passionate, all out pursuit, reckless abandon, throw caution to the wind kind of love.
God isn't interested in our ritual love. The man in this passage tell Jesus that he's learned that recognizing the authority of God in his life and pouring himself out to God and genuinely loving others is more important than a lifetime of burnt offerings and sacrifices. He knows that God isn't interested in lip service and outward signs of spirituality that have no meaning. He wants us to love Him with every ounce of our being. God said, "to obey is better than sacrifice."
Paul talks about being poured out like a drink offering to God. That's the kind of love which pleases God; to empty the pitcher before God, draining every last drop. When that happens, God refills our pitcher with His presence, glorious riches, understanding and we truly become one with Him.
But here's the kicker; once we've poured ourselves completely out, emptied ourselves of our agendas, wills, etc. and God fills us up again, we become His vessel that is to be poured out into the lives of others. That's why loving others is part of this command. A lot of believers empty themselves initially and when God pours into them His freshness, they want to keep it in their pitcher. They never pour it out into the lives of others. They talk a lot about what's in their pitcher and what God poured into them.
Eventually, that which God pours into you becomes stagnant if you don't pour it back out. God can't give you anything really fresh unless you empty yourself. Sure God tops you off once in a while what has evaporated or the little you do pour out, but a fresh fill can't happen until we empty our jug. Loving others as yourself means pouring into others passionately desiring them to receive what God has given you.
God, I want to pour myself out before you as a drink offering. Continue to fill me as I pour myself out to others with a desire for them to experience you, as you intended.
When asked what the greatest command was, Jesus responded by highlighting the majesty, glory and supreme authority of God. He then moves onto loving God. But Jesus' command isn't casual love. The love Jesus calls for involves every element of our being; ALL our heart, ALL our soul, ALL our mind, ALL our strength. Loving God as Jesus commands requires a passionate, all out pursuit, reckless abandon, throw caution to the wind kind of love.
God isn't interested in our ritual love. The man in this passage tell Jesus that he's learned that recognizing the authority of God in his life and pouring himself out to God and genuinely loving others is more important than a lifetime of burnt offerings and sacrifices. He knows that God isn't interested in lip service and outward signs of spirituality that have no meaning. He wants us to love Him with every ounce of our being. God said, "to obey is better than sacrifice."
Paul talks about being poured out like a drink offering to God. That's the kind of love which pleases God; to empty the pitcher before God, draining every last drop. When that happens, God refills our pitcher with His presence, glorious riches, understanding and we truly become one with Him.
But here's the kicker; once we've poured ourselves completely out, emptied ourselves of our agendas, wills, etc. and God fills us up again, we become His vessel that is to be poured out into the lives of others. That's why loving others is part of this command. A lot of believers empty themselves initially and when God pours into them His freshness, they want to keep it in their pitcher. They never pour it out into the lives of others. They talk a lot about what's in their pitcher and what God poured into them.
Eventually, that which God pours into you becomes stagnant if you don't pour it back out. God can't give you anything really fresh unless you empty yourself. Sure God tops you off once in a while what has evaporated or the little you do pour out, but a fresh fill can't happen until we empty our jug. Loving others as yourself means pouring into others passionately desiring them to receive what God has given you.
God, I want to pour myself out before you as a drink offering. Continue to fill me as I pour myself out to others with a desire for them to experience you, as you intended.
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Daily Reflections on 1 Cor. 5:9-13 (The Enemy Within)
Sometimes we call them spies or plants. Sometimes we call them team wreckers. Sometimes we call them bad apples. Sometimes we call them cancer. It's those individuals or even groups that bring down the integrity, morale, or chemistry of an organization, team, business or major group. Not only is the reputation called into question, but there's a slow drain on the vibrancy, effectives, ethics, productivity of that group. Corruption and individualism creeps in.
Recently the NBA Commissioner mandated that all NBA player dress up for press conferences and/or NBA related appearances. He was trying to reverse the hip hop imagery of thuggery about the NBA. Along the same lines, the new NFL Commissioner began handing down major suspensions to any NFL player caught or involved in illegal or questionable activities. NASCAR officials have come down heavy with fines, penalties and suspensions on teams, owners and drivers who alter in any fashion the specs of the Car of Tomorrow in an effort to crush any image of cheating. Major League Baseball has pushed to get rid of steroid or any performance enhancing drug usage among its players. All this is an attempt to clean up their respective sport of any perceived or actual improprieties with an eye on improving their image.
The Church has gone through and continues to go through various cultural evolutions in order to remain The Church, yet exist in a fallen world. How do you live in the world without becoming tainted by the world? Monasteries and nunneries don't appear to the answer if we're trying to share the Good News. Adding rules and regulations got the Pharisees in trouble in Jesus' day. Walling ourselves off in church buildings or church cultures doesn't work. Nor does ignoring the worldly behavior of "Christians" in the church.
How does today's church stand on truth, proclaim Christ's message of hope and salvation to the lost and demonstrate love to all people? Tough question. I could write a chapter on this subject. Paul says to connect with the people of the world without compromising your values so that you can show God's Good News to them. He also says not to even have lunch with people who claim to be followers of Christ but are pursuing a worldly, sinful lifestyle. In fact, Paul teaches this church to whom He's writing to expel a man who's sleeping with his own mother and treat him as an unbeliever.
Because none of us are perfect, all of us could be expelled from a church because of our inconsistent behavior (not for sleeping with our mothers, but other sinful attitudes or behavior). However, The Church must lovingly stand on and for God's truth, otherwise she becomes irrelevant, corrupt and ineffective. So as believers we must exhort when necessary. Encourage when necessary. Challenge when necessary. Confess when necessary. Teach when necessary. Confront when necessary. And restore when necessary.
God, I need your wisdom as a pastor and as simply a follower of Christ, when and how to speak, when and how to challenge, when and how to love, when and how to encourage, when and how to restore. I see the fishers in my own life. I need your wisdom, strength, guidance in dealing with my own issues. God, sometimes I look at the church and my own life and think about those famous words, "we have seen the enemy and it is us." I worry about the enemy within, about individuals, The Church, me giving in or giving up. I thank you for the promise of Jesus' words, "Greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world." God help me, my church be unpolluted by the world as we extend ourselves to the world who desperately needs you, your truth and your saving grace.
Recently the NBA Commissioner mandated that all NBA player dress up for press conferences and/or NBA related appearances. He was trying to reverse the hip hop imagery of thuggery about the NBA. Along the same lines, the new NFL Commissioner began handing down major suspensions to any NFL player caught or involved in illegal or questionable activities. NASCAR officials have come down heavy with fines, penalties and suspensions on teams, owners and drivers who alter in any fashion the specs of the Car of Tomorrow in an effort to crush any image of cheating. Major League Baseball has pushed to get rid of steroid or any performance enhancing drug usage among its players. All this is an attempt to clean up their respective sport of any perceived or actual improprieties with an eye on improving their image.
The Church has gone through and continues to go through various cultural evolutions in order to remain The Church, yet exist in a fallen world. How do you live in the world without becoming tainted by the world? Monasteries and nunneries don't appear to the answer if we're trying to share the Good News. Adding rules and regulations got the Pharisees in trouble in Jesus' day. Walling ourselves off in church buildings or church cultures doesn't work. Nor does ignoring the worldly behavior of "Christians" in the church.
How does today's church stand on truth, proclaim Christ's message of hope and salvation to the lost and demonstrate love to all people? Tough question. I could write a chapter on this subject. Paul says to connect with the people of the world without compromising your values so that you can show God's Good News to them. He also says not to even have lunch with people who claim to be followers of Christ but are pursuing a worldly, sinful lifestyle. In fact, Paul teaches this church to whom He's writing to expel a man who's sleeping with his own mother and treat him as an unbeliever.
Because none of us are perfect, all of us could be expelled from a church because of our inconsistent behavior (not for sleeping with our mothers, but other sinful attitudes or behavior). However, The Church must lovingly stand on and for God's truth, otherwise she becomes irrelevant, corrupt and ineffective. So as believers we must exhort when necessary. Encourage when necessary. Challenge when necessary. Confess when necessary. Teach when necessary. Confront when necessary. And restore when necessary.
God, I need your wisdom as a pastor and as simply a follower of Christ, when and how to speak, when and how to challenge, when and how to love, when and how to encourage, when and how to restore. I see the fishers in my own life. I need your wisdom, strength, guidance in dealing with my own issues. God, sometimes I look at the church and my own life and think about those famous words, "we have seen the enemy and it is us." I worry about the enemy within, about individuals, The Church, me giving in or giving up. I thank you for the promise of Jesus' words, "Greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world." God help me, my church be unpolluted by the world as we extend ourselves to the world who desperately needs you, your truth and your saving grace.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Daily Reflections on 1 Thes. 5:4-11 (What's Up with the World?)
What's the world coming to? The End. Some day God is going to send Jesus back to earth and it will all come to an end. I honestly don't know or really care if it will happen instantly or over a thousand years. It's of little consequence. What is of consequence is the day of accounting or as some call it, "Judgment Day." Upon Jesus' return there will be no question and no atheists, nor agnostics, nor deists. Every knee will bow and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father.
As a follower of Christ, my focus should be on His return or at least my day of accounting. Each and every day that God grants us breath is a day that should be lived unto His glory. Since as a believer I've been redeemed at the cost of Jesus' life, my life should be lived in gratitude, with purpose and an awareness of God's daily presence.
Self control and personal discipline appear to be a lost or archaic virtue in today's instant gratification and self indulgent culture. "Buy now, pay later" is the order of the day, which has led to unbearable debt. "Why wait till marriage" has led to a record numbers of abortions, illegitimate births, welfare entitlements, and STDs. Both attitudes have contributed to the astronomical divorce rate and number of couples living together outside of marriage.
When Christ returns, His followers will have no excuse. We are to live with self control, personal discipline, faith, hope and love. Christ didn't die for nothing. We were bought with a price. Apparently our salvation is linked to how we live. In this "it's all about me" society we live in, God calls us to live for Him, in Him and with Him. In order to do that, we, as followers of Christ, must encourage each other, build each other up. We can't afford to isolate ourselves from one another, to point accusatory fingers at one another or ignore one another. We should celebrate one another our victory in Jesus. We should share our mutual hope with one another; stand with one another; support one another.
God, I don't want to waste my life. I don't want my life to be about me. Use me as a light for you, as an encouragement to others. Keep me focused on what's really important. Help me in areas where I lack discipline to practice self control. I want each day of my life to count for you.
As a follower of Christ, my focus should be on His return or at least my day of accounting. Each and every day that God grants us breath is a day that should be lived unto His glory. Since as a believer I've been redeemed at the cost of Jesus' life, my life should be lived in gratitude, with purpose and an awareness of God's daily presence.
Self control and personal discipline appear to be a lost or archaic virtue in today's instant gratification and self indulgent culture. "Buy now, pay later" is the order of the day, which has led to unbearable debt. "Why wait till marriage" has led to a record numbers of abortions, illegitimate births, welfare entitlements, and STDs. Both attitudes have contributed to the astronomical divorce rate and number of couples living together outside of marriage.
When Christ returns, His followers will have no excuse. We are to live with self control, personal discipline, faith, hope and love. Christ didn't die for nothing. We were bought with a price. Apparently our salvation is linked to how we live. In this "it's all about me" society we live in, God calls us to live for Him, in Him and with Him. In order to do that, we, as followers of Christ, must encourage each other, build each other up. We can't afford to isolate ourselves from one another, to point accusatory fingers at one another or ignore one another. We should celebrate one another our victory in Jesus. We should share our mutual hope with one another; stand with one another; support one another.
God, I don't want to waste my life. I don't want my life to be about me. Use me as a light for you, as an encouragement to others. Keep me focused on what's really important. Help me in areas where I lack discipline to practice self control. I want each day of my life to count for you.
Monday, June 25, 2007
Daily Reflections on Ps. 42 (Longing)
What have you really longed for? Sunshine? The pelting sound of rain as it falls to earth? The voice of a loved one or friend? The crackle of a fire place? The site of home? To sleep in your own bed? Maybe sleep itself? Longing is more than just a passing urge or taste for something. Longing is a deep desire of the heart, a craving of the soul. It affects our mood, captures our thoughts, disturbs our very being.
What have you really longed for? OR who have you really longed for? What or who consumes your waking thought, fills your dreams, keeps you tossing and turning as you try to sleep? The psalmist describes his longing for God as a thirsty deer desperate to drink from the fresh flowing streams of water. He's parched by the conditions of life and clamors for the refreshment only God can bring. Surrounded by scoffers and critics, he feels all alone, abandoned and weak.
I've been there all too often. When life gets really hard, when I feel the oppression of people, circumstance and Satan, my chest tightens, my muscles tense, depression creeps into my life. It sometimes feels like I'm all alone in the world. That I'm the only one who really cares about the vision God implanted in me. It makes me want to run away and hide. I long just to be in the presence of God.
The good news is that in desperation I run to God. And when I run to God, He's there. In fact, He's been there all along. If I had that kind of longing each and every day, my depression, loneliness, and panic wouldn't overwhelm me. I'm learning that the key to an even keel, a satisfying life, a positive perspective is placing my trust in God, praising Him in all circumstance.
God, I can't imagine life without you. Life is tough enough knowing you. Living without you would be intolerable, hopeless, meaningless, lonely. God, I do long for you in corporate worship. I do long for you in distress. I long to hear your voice, to sense you presence, to see your hand move. I long to see others coming to you. Fill my cup Lord. I lift it up to you!
What have you really longed for? OR who have you really longed for? What or who consumes your waking thought, fills your dreams, keeps you tossing and turning as you try to sleep? The psalmist describes his longing for God as a thirsty deer desperate to drink from the fresh flowing streams of water. He's parched by the conditions of life and clamors for the refreshment only God can bring. Surrounded by scoffers and critics, he feels all alone, abandoned and weak.
I've been there all too often. When life gets really hard, when I feel the oppression of people, circumstance and Satan, my chest tightens, my muscles tense, depression creeps into my life. It sometimes feels like I'm all alone in the world. That I'm the only one who really cares about the vision God implanted in me. It makes me want to run away and hide. I long just to be in the presence of God.
The good news is that in desperation I run to God. And when I run to God, He's there. In fact, He's been there all along. If I had that kind of longing each and every day, my depression, loneliness, and panic wouldn't overwhelm me. I'm learning that the key to an even keel, a satisfying life, a positive perspective is placing my trust in God, praising Him in all circumstance.
God, I can't imagine life without you. Life is tough enough knowing you. Living without you would be intolerable, hopeless, meaningless, lonely. God, I do long for you in corporate worship. I do long for you in distress. I long to hear your voice, to sense you presence, to see your hand move. I long to see others coming to you. Fill my cup Lord. I lift it up to you!
Saturday, June 23, 2007
Daily Reflections on 1 Sam. 16:6-13 (Who Me?)
Who me? It's always been interesting to me who God uses to accomplish His task or mission. David, the runt of the litter so to speak; Jacob, the con man; Gideon, cowering in a wine press; or even the twelve disciples, an unlikely lot from mostly Galilee. I'm also reminded about the time that God used a real ass, Balaam's donkey.
If God can use people such as these, He can use anyone. The talents, resources, education, charisma, wealth, athleticism, looks, intelligence make little difference to Him. The little boy who gave his few loaves and fishes to Jesus were enough to feed thousands with plenty of leftovers. It's not what we have in our hands or what we think we bring to the table that God is looking for. It's much deeper. When we face a task, a crisis, a challenge or whatever, our first instinct is to take a quick inventory of what we have in terms of resources. God really doesn't need our resources. He wants something more.
The text says that God looks not at outward appearances. Rather He sees into our heart, mind, being, our very soul. He knows our intentions, our true character, our tendencies, our attitude. He knows our willingness to conform to His will, to surrender to Him. And that's what He's looking for! 2 Chr. 16:9 says that the eyes of the Lord are roaming to and fro across the earth searching for those whose heart is completely His. And when He finds that person, he's able to use them.
It doesn't matter how much you have, how smart you are, how gifted you are. What matters is your heart toward Him. A widow's last two mites became a cache of riches. A lady's last bit of oil and flour became an endless supply of food. A slingshot became a giant killer. When God's Spirit falls on God's man, David was empowered from that day forward.
God, I want to be your man, your person for your purpose. Take what I have and use it to your glory. As David cried out, create in me a pure heart, a clean heart, a usable heart. I want to be a vessel in your hands, whether that's slaying giants, conquering kingdoms, feeding thousands, comforting the hurting or delivering your message.
If God can use people such as these, He can use anyone. The talents, resources, education, charisma, wealth, athleticism, looks, intelligence make little difference to Him. The little boy who gave his few loaves and fishes to Jesus were enough to feed thousands with plenty of leftovers. It's not what we have in our hands or what we think we bring to the table that God is looking for. It's much deeper. When we face a task, a crisis, a challenge or whatever, our first instinct is to take a quick inventory of what we have in terms of resources. God really doesn't need our resources. He wants something more.
The text says that God looks not at outward appearances. Rather He sees into our heart, mind, being, our very soul. He knows our intentions, our true character, our tendencies, our attitude. He knows our willingness to conform to His will, to surrender to Him. And that's what He's looking for! 2 Chr. 16:9 says that the eyes of the Lord are roaming to and fro across the earth searching for those whose heart is completely His. And when He finds that person, he's able to use them.
It doesn't matter how much you have, how smart you are, how gifted you are. What matters is your heart toward Him. A widow's last two mites became a cache of riches. A lady's last bit of oil and flour became an endless supply of food. A slingshot became a giant killer. When God's Spirit falls on God's man, David was empowered from that day forward.
God, I want to be your man, your person for your purpose. Take what I have and use it to your glory. As David cried out, create in me a pure heart, a clean heart, a usable heart. I want to be a vessel in your hands, whether that's slaying giants, conquering kingdoms, feeding thousands, comforting the hurting or delivering your message.
Friday, June 22, 2007
Daily Reflections on Eccl. 5:18-20; Eph. 6:5-8 (Take this job and...)
I hear a of people complaining about their jobs these days. Hours, pay, coworkers, bosses, conditions, policies, benefits, the complaints are endless. Seems like there's negativity everywhere. Doesn't anyone enjoy life anymore? Does anyone find satisfaction in their job?
The pressure is on today more than ever to meet production goals, quotas, bottom lines, fiscal marks, profit margins, deadlines, customer satisfaction, stock/dividend projections, high yields. On top of that, competition is severe and time is of the essence. Stress level are through the roof. And the sad thing is, it's never enough.
Although people don't talk much these days about the myth of the greener grass and the idea of stopping to smell the roses, it's still an issue in our world and culture. Pressures to get, get, get, achieve, achieve, achieve leads to an unbearable life. We kill ourselves to buy a boat and then don't have time to use it.
Work is work and life is hard. But, the constant pressing causes us to miss out on the true joy of life. God intended for us to enjoy our life and work. And when I'm working as if I'm working for Christ, then it can be even more enjoyable. Having moved frequently in my life I've learned to enjoy each community I've lived in and the people around me. There's just something special about each place and I'm blessed by the people and life I've encountered. I've learned to live life each day and take each situation for what it is.
Not every job is pleasant. Not every environment is joyous. Not every task is easy or without tension. Not every day is a good one. But each experience is an opportunity in which to grow, to learn, to testify, to serve. No job is 100% perfect all the time. We can live and work constantly beating our heads against the wall OR we can accept life as the challenge that it is and seize the day in the power of Christ.
If you're frustrate about life and/or your job, here's a few things to consider: Are you where God wants you to be? Are you pursuing God's calling and purpose for your life? Are you living each day and giving your full effort as if you were living/working for Christ? Are you being salt and light where you are despite your circumstance? Are you willing to be Christ's ambassador in the place you're in? Do you need an attitude adjustment? Do you need to be in a place which suits your gifts, talents, abilities, etc.? What does your relationship with Christ really look like?
God, help me to be like the Apostle Paul and learn to be content in every circumstance in you. I want to bring your light, comfort, joy, love, encouragement, hope, assurance, security into the lives of people around me. God sometimes being your servant is tough. Give me the strength and wisdom to go forward each day. Give me the insight to recognize my purpose, gifts, strengths, weaknesses, talents and attitude. Use me today, where I am to serve your greater purpose.
The pressure is on today more than ever to meet production goals, quotas, bottom lines, fiscal marks, profit margins, deadlines, customer satisfaction, stock/dividend projections, high yields. On top of that, competition is severe and time is of the essence. Stress level are through the roof. And the sad thing is, it's never enough.
Although people don't talk much these days about the myth of the greener grass and the idea of stopping to smell the roses, it's still an issue in our world and culture. Pressures to get, get, get, achieve, achieve, achieve leads to an unbearable life. We kill ourselves to buy a boat and then don't have time to use it.
Work is work and life is hard. But, the constant pressing causes us to miss out on the true joy of life. God intended for us to enjoy our life and work. And when I'm working as if I'm working for Christ, then it can be even more enjoyable. Having moved frequently in my life I've learned to enjoy each community I've lived in and the people around me. There's just something special about each place and I'm blessed by the people and life I've encountered. I've learned to live life each day and take each situation for what it is.
Not every job is pleasant. Not every environment is joyous. Not every task is easy or without tension. Not every day is a good one. But each experience is an opportunity in which to grow, to learn, to testify, to serve. No job is 100% perfect all the time. We can live and work constantly beating our heads against the wall OR we can accept life as the challenge that it is and seize the day in the power of Christ.
If you're frustrate about life and/or your job, here's a few things to consider: Are you where God wants you to be? Are you pursuing God's calling and purpose for your life? Are you living each day and giving your full effort as if you were living/working for Christ? Are you being salt and light where you are despite your circumstance? Are you willing to be Christ's ambassador in the place you're in? Do you need an attitude adjustment? Do you need to be in a place which suits your gifts, talents, abilities, etc.? What does your relationship with Christ really look like?
God, help me to be like the Apostle Paul and learn to be content in every circumstance in you. I want to bring your light, comfort, joy, love, encouragement, hope, assurance, security into the lives of people around me. God sometimes being your servant is tough. Give me the strength and wisdom to go forward each day. Give me the insight to recognize my purpose, gifts, strengths, weaknesses, talents and attitude. Use me today, where I am to serve your greater purpose.
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Daily Reflections on 2 Pet. 1:3-11 (Avoiding Embarrassment)
Ever want to run away and hide? I love the Southwest Airlines commercials that depict someone in an embarrassing situation and the voice over comes on, "Wanna get a way?" I've been there more than once. I've said those words that I wish I could take back. I've done those things that later I was embarrassed about. It's weird how some of the stupid little things we've said or done can haunt you for years.
I think today's passage is both exciting and intimidating. Through the years as a follower of Christ I've looked at these verses and thought I could never measure up. Adding all these things in increasing measure to my life seemed to be an impossible task. In fact, I used to wonder if I added all these things to my life if it would decrease my effectiveness or competitive spirit as an athlete. Besides, when I looked at the real Dave in the mirror, I knew those attributes weren't really there, at least consistently there.
As I've grown and matured in life and in Christ (and my athletic prowess has disappeared), I have seen Peter is right about a productive and effective life. I've realized that I can never achieve these character traits on my own by just working hard. That's why I need a savior. If I could do this with my shear will power, I wouldn't need Jesus. That's what's so exciting about this passage. God knows that. That's why He sent Jesus to save us and the Holy Spirit to live within those who accept Jesus as Lord and Savior. God's gives me everything I need to grow in these areas; His backing, His Word, His coaching, His promise, His Holy Spirit, His presence, His family.
My responsibility? To make every effort to allow God to transform my life by seeking after Him, renewing my mind, following the example of Christ. I'm to live my life running with reckless abandon toward Him. Am I gonna stumble sometimes or get tired or have a really bad day? Absolutely! That's why I need the armor of God. This is spiritual warfare and Satan is a terrorist. That's why I have to get up and keep running toward Jesus. The good news is that if I keep running toward Him, I'm gonna win!
Wow, God, what a promise! I want to participate in your divine nature. I'd love to run away from, escape my own corruption, not to mention the world's corruption. I hate my actions and reactions sometimes. I really want to sense your Spirit ebbing and flowing in my life. I want to know you more intimately and deeply. I'm tired of my inept self. I want to live in your power.
I think today's passage is both exciting and intimidating. Through the years as a follower of Christ I've looked at these verses and thought I could never measure up. Adding all these things in increasing measure to my life seemed to be an impossible task. In fact, I used to wonder if I added all these things to my life if it would decrease my effectiveness or competitive spirit as an athlete. Besides, when I looked at the real Dave in the mirror, I knew those attributes weren't really there, at least consistently there.
As I've grown and matured in life and in Christ (and my athletic prowess has disappeared), I have seen Peter is right about a productive and effective life. I've realized that I can never achieve these character traits on my own by just working hard. That's why I need a savior. If I could do this with my shear will power, I wouldn't need Jesus. That's what's so exciting about this passage. God knows that. That's why He sent Jesus to save us and the Holy Spirit to live within those who accept Jesus as Lord and Savior. God's gives me everything I need to grow in these areas; His backing, His Word, His coaching, His promise, His Holy Spirit, His presence, His family.
My responsibility? To make every effort to allow God to transform my life by seeking after Him, renewing my mind, following the example of Christ. I'm to live my life running with reckless abandon toward Him. Am I gonna stumble sometimes or get tired or have a really bad day? Absolutely! That's why I need the armor of God. This is spiritual warfare and Satan is a terrorist. That's why I have to get up and keep running toward Jesus. The good news is that if I keep running toward Him, I'm gonna win!
Wow, God, what a promise! I want to participate in your divine nature. I'd love to run away from, escape my own corruption, not to mention the world's corruption. I hate my actions and reactions sometimes. I really want to sense your Spirit ebbing and flowing in my life. I want to know you more intimately and deeply. I'm tired of my inept self. I want to live in your power.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Daily Reflections on Eph. 3:14-19 (Loneliness)
Sometimes I feel all alone in the world. It's depressing. I have people all around me, I have family and yet sometimes I feel like it's just me against the world. Loneliness is a tough place to be. We can't let on we're feeling lonely in our work place or with our friends because they'd either think we're weird or psycho or the sharks would move in for the kill. So our loneliness only deepens.
It seems kind of strange to think that a "servant of God" could ever feel lonely. I'd be embarrassed to admit that except for the fact that a guy named Elijah experienced extreme loneliness and there was that time in the Garden of Gethsemane when Jesus couldn't get His closest friends to stay up and pray with Him. It was only THE most crucial night of His life on earth.
Loneliness and feeling loved seem to have something in common. When I feel least loved and appreciated, I notice my loneliness meter rises. When I'm feeling all alone in the world, my sense of being loved diminishes. Perhaps that's why God said it wasn't good for man to dwell alone. Truth is, we all need a love that values us. We all need interaction and intimacy with others to feel and express love.
Through my years of ministry I've noted that a majority of Christians and people in general struggle with life, faith, relationships, finances, careers, family, self-esteem because they've not experienced a genuine love relationship with God. Church attendance, church service, spiritual obligations, rituals, rules, Bible study have become substitutes for a growing intimacy with God. So life in Christ is nothing more than a routine. There is no joy because we're not truly filled with a love relationship with God. Read these verses again. Strength, confidence, optimism, hope, self-esteem, inner joy, power, acceptance all come from growing deeper in a love relationship with God.
God, I want to be swallowed up in your love. I want to wallow in, luxuriate in it, revel in it, soak in it. I want to truly experience you, to be filled up with you. Help me Lord, put aside the distractions of life and simply grow in truly knowing you. It's exhilarating to sense your presence, power and love. I want to experience that daily, not just in a corporate worship environment. God, I'm opening my life, my heart, my mind, my soul to you.
It seems kind of strange to think that a "servant of God" could ever feel lonely. I'd be embarrassed to admit that except for the fact that a guy named Elijah experienced extreme loneliness and there was that time in the Garden of Gethsemane when Jesus couldn't get His closest friends to stay up and pray with Him. It was only THE most crucial night of His life on earth.
Loneliness and feeling loved seem to have something in common. When I feel least loved and appreciated, I notice my loneliness meter rises. When I'm feeling all alone in the world, my sense of being loved diminishes. Perhaps that's why God said it wasn't good for man to dwell alone. Truth is, we all need a love that values us. We all need interaction and intimacy with others to feel and express love.
Through my years of ministry I've noted that a majority of Christians and people in general struggle with life, faith, relationships, finances, careers, family, self-esteem because they've not experienced a genuine love relationship with God. Church attendance, church service, spiritual obligations, rituals, rules, Bible study have become substitutes for a growing intimacy with God. So life in Christ is nothing more than a routine. There is no joy because we're not truly filled with a love relationship with God. Read these verses again. Strength, confidence, optimism, hope, self-esteem, inner joy, power, acceptance all come from growing deeper in a love relationship with God.
God, I want to be swallowed up in your love. I want to wallow in, luxuriate in it, revel in it, soak in it. I want to truly experience you, to be filled up with you. Help me Lord, put aside the distractions of life and simply grow in truly knowing you. It's exhilarating to sense your presence, power and love. I want to experience that daily, not just in a corporate worship environment. God, I'm opening my life, my heart, my mind, my soul to you.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Daily Reflections on 1 Cor. 12:12-31 (You Don't Think Like Me)
Someone once said that if two people in a relationship thought the same on every subject, one of those persons was not necessary in the relationship. I know a lot of people who think harmony or unity in any relationship is about uniformity. If everybody just goes along, thinks the same way, reacts the same way, everything will be right with the world. Lack of confrontation and conflict makes everything okay. No need to challenge thought, just everyone agree.
What a strange world we'd live in if everyone's talents, insights, desires, thoughts, opinions, etc. were exactly the same. It's all our different gifts, insights, perceptions, talents that make the world go round. Farmers, doctors, builders, teachers, administrators, mechanics, accountants, nurses, bankers, policemen, firemen, architects, engineers, techies, all allow the world to function. When my tooth hurts, I'm glad there are dentists. When my A/C goes out, I'm glad there are hvac specialists/repairmen. When I'm hungry, I'm glad there are restaurateurs and chefs and waitresses.
We live in an interdependent world. We need each other. Societies couldn't advance without the diversity of interests, talents, views and thoughts. My life would be miserable without the diversity of people around me. I need people with different abilities around me. Stephen Covey tells the story of a couple he met with who were having marital problems because of their vast differences. He asked them how they got their children. Embarrassed the couple responded, "You know how." Covey then responded, "You got your children by valuing your differences." I admit, sometimes my wife drives me crazy, but I really value her difference. It can really be enjoyable!
It bothers me when The Church or a church or a group of believers or even a few Christians get into scuffles over who's right, who's in charge, or start whining about the differences of other believers. God designed His church with a multitude of differences and we need to learn to value our differences instead of devaluing or demeaning the other persons.
We are one body whether we like it or not. To cut off ourselves or to attempt to rid ourselves of parts of the body would be ludicrous. The church cannot exist or advance without musicians, teachers, planners, servers, pastors, caregivers anymore than society can exist without its diversity.
God, thanks for the diversity you put in the people around me. Help me to value each person for who you've created them to be. Help me to see my role and purpose in your kingdom. Help me accept the differences of others. Help me to see that I don't have to like everything around me or agree with everything around me. Thanks for creating the church as a body, with all its diversity.
What a strange world we'd live in if everyone's talents, insights, desires, thoughts, opinions, etc. were exactly the same. It's all our different gifts, insights, perceptions, talents that make the world go round. Farmers, doctors, builders, teachers, administrators, mechanics, accountants, nurses, bankers, policemen, firemen, architects, engineers, techies, all allow the world to function. When my tooth hurts, I'm glad there are dentists. When my A/C goes out, I'm glad there are hvac specialists/repairmen. When I'm hungry, I'm glad there are restaurateurs and chefs and waitresses.
We live in an interdependent world. We need each other. Societies couldn't advance without the diversity of interests, talents, views and thoughts. My life would be miserable without the diversity of people around me. I need people with different abilities around me. Stephen Covey tells the story of a couple he met with who were having marital problems because of their vast differences. He asked them how they got their children. Embarrassed the couple responded, "You know how." Covey then responded, "You got your children by valuing your differences." I admit, sometimes my wife drives me crazy, but I really value her difference. It can really be enjoyable!
It bothers me when The Church or a church or a group of believers or even a few Christians get into scuffles over who's right, who's in charge, or start whining about the differences of other believers. God designed His church with a multitude of differences and we need to learn to value our differences instead of devaluing or demeaning the other persons.
We are one body whether we like it or not. To cut off ourselves or to attempt to rid ourselves of parts of the body would be ludicrous. The church cannot exist or advance without musicians, teachers, planners, servers, pastors, caregivers anymore than society can exist without its diversity.
God, thanks for the diversity you put in the people around me. Help me to value each person for who you've created them to be. Help me to see my role and purpose in your kingdom. Help me accept the differences of others. Help me to see that I don't have to like everything around me or agree with everything around me. Thanks for creating the church as a body, with all its diversity.
Monday, June 18, 2007
Daily Reflections on Jas. 2:1-9 (Blind Love or Authentic Love)
It's often been said that love is blind. Unfortunately in our society that's not always true. The people who seem to get all or most of the love and attention are the "beautiful" people, the pretty, handsome, rich, talented, or Hollywood type people. Those of us with average looks or drive a Yugo don't get a lot of love and/or attention. We learn it from the time we enter school, it's all about the beautiful people. The rest of us, well, we're just background noise.
For God, love isn't necessarily blind, because He sees and knows everything. But God's love is equal, universal, unconditional, non-gaging, eternal. God loves rich and poor alike, talented and non-talented, beautiful and ugly Betty, obedient and non-obedient. Not that God approves or condones everyone's behavior or escapades. God loves Billy Graham, Paris Hilton, Osama bin Laden, and John and Jane Doe all the same. It's hard to understand that kind of love. Not blind, but all-inclusive.
What James call for here is for all His people to demonstrate that kind of love. When people come into our midst, they should experience God's love through us. Wow, that's hard! James is really talking about an authentic love for all people. James is not saying don't have favorites, because we all have our favorite teams, foods, clothes, etc. He's saying we should treat people equally regardless of their status, wealth, talent, looks, influence, education, race or prominence. It truly is an authentic love for people.
God, help me to see people with your eyes, with your heart. Help me love people, all people, with a genuine, authentic love. I don't want to have a blind love that looks past needs, pains, issues, or sins. I want to have a valuing love that helps, ministers, cares, encourages, protects, allows people to sense Your love through me.
For God, love isn't necessarily blind, because He sees and knows everything. But God's love is equal, universal, unconditional, non-gaging, eternal. God loves rich and poor alike, talented and non-talented, beautiful and ugly Betty, obedient and non-obedient. Not that God approves or condones everyone's behavior or escapades. God loves Billy Graham, Paris Hilton, Osama bin Laden, and John and Jane Doe all the same. It's hard to understand that kind of love. Not blind, but all-inclusive.
What James call for here is for all His people to demonstrate that kind of love. When people come into our midst, they should experience God's love through us. Wow, that's hard! James is really talking about an authentic love for all people. James is not saying don't have favorites, because we all have our favorite teams, foods, clothes, etc. He's saying we should treat people equally regardless of their status, wealth, talent, looks, influence, education, race or prominence. It truly is an authentic love for people.
God, help me to see people with your eyes, with your heart. Help me love people, all people, with a genuine, authentic love. I don't want to have a blind love that looks past needs, pains, issues, or sins. I want to have a valuing love that helps, ministers, cares, encourages, protects, allows people to sense Your love through me.
Saturday, June 16, 2007
Daily Reflections on Mk. 10:7-9 (One plus one equals one)
For the first time in a long time divorce statistics are on the decline. That would be good news except the cause of the decline is that more people are foregoing marriage and just living together. As Judge Judy says, "They're playing house." Gone is the commitment to long term relationships. Virtually every couple that comes to me to get married are either living together or might as well be. I always asked the question, "So why get married?"
On the eve of Father's Day I can't help buy contemplate the instruction of these verse. God said it wasn't good for a man to be without companionship so he made Eve, husband and wife. God intended for Adam and Eve to be lifelong companions and if you remember Adam lived to be over 900 years. Some sly commentators have noted that God didn't make Adam and Fred. But God also didn't make Adam and Eva and Felicity and Marsha.
God's intention was that a man and woman commit themselves to one another in marriage for a lifetime. Man (woman too) leaves father and mother joins with his wife (husband) to create a new family. Husbands, Dads, God calls you to cling to your wife. The ultimate responsibility for the long term growth of a marriage and family is the man's. I know it takes 2 to make a marriage; wives have their responsibilities too. But Husbands are the one who is "head" of the house. Headship means responsibility. It means greater service and giving up more rights. Husbands are to love their wives like Christ loves the Church.
Isn't it interesting that guys, who are notoriously known for their lack of relational skills, have the responsibility for the health of the marital relationship and family development? Husbands, Dads are called to set the love quotient in the family.
God, help me to be the pacesetter of love in my home. Help me to help my wife feel secure and wanted and loved and nourished. Allow her to feel my commitment to her now more than ever; to know I value her. I want to leave a legacy of what it mean for a husband to really love his wife for my kids.
On the eve of Father's Day I can't help buy contemplate the instruction of these verse. God said it wasn't good for a man to be without companionship so he made Eve, husband and wife. God intended for Adam and Eve to be lifelong companions and if you remember Adam lived to be over 900 years. Some sly commentators have noted that God didn't make Adam and Fred. But God also didn't make Adam and Eva and Felicity and Marsha.
God's intention was that a man and woman commit themselves to one another in marriage for a lifetime. Man (woman too) leaves father and mother joins with his wife (husband) to create a new family. Husbands, Dads, God calls you to cling to your wife. The ultimate responsibility for the long term growth of a marriage and family is the man's. I know it takes 2 to make a marriage; wives have their responsibilities too. But Husbands are the one who is "head" of the house. Headship means responsibility. It means greater service and giving up more rights. Husbands are to love their wives like Christ loves the Church.
Isn't it interesting that guys, who are notoriously known for their lack of relational skills, have the responsibility for the health of the marital relationship and family development? Husbands, Dads are called to set the love quotient in the family.
God, help me to be the pacesetter of love in my home. Help me to help my wife feel secure and wanted and loved and nourished. Allow her to feel my commitment to her now more than ever; to know I value her. I want to leave a legacy of what it mean for a husband to really love his wife for my kids.
Friday, June 15, 2007
Daily Reflections on 1 Cor. 3:5-9 (Why so many denominations?)
Why are there so many denominations? Why do churches divide or split? As a new nondenominational church I hear those questions all the time, along with, "What kind of church are you? Baptist? Assembly? Full Gospel?" To which I typically respond, "We're simply trying to be Christ's Church with no denominational ties." The question of the origin of the many denominations and church splits probably comes back to the scenario depicted in these verses and our failure to recognize who's church it is and to whom we belong as believers.
Okay, an element of pride and selfishness probably plays a part. And of course there's no doubt a little, "this is MY church" mentality. I can't leave out political and national influences or differing interpretations or traditions or countless other not really relevant issues.
With the challenges facing churches, people, local and state governments today, isn't it time we, as Ray Ortlund once said, let the church be the church. Isn't it time we stop and recognize the church was never meant to be an organization or business or country club or split into a multitude of denominations. Jesus is supposed to be the head of the church not some council or board or pastor or ladies group or influential family. Isn't it time we put away the catechism books and church disciplines and bylaws and pick up the Word of God as our only rule of faith and guidance. The church belongs to God, to Christ not me or anyone else. He paid for it, not me.
I've always been amused at the immaturity that exists in churches which cause people and groups to follow after, worship, fight for, defend certain pastors or teachers or even denominations. It's silly. Pointing accusatory fingers at other believers doesn't seem to jive with, "they will know that you are my followers by your love for one another."
God, I recognize the church that I pastor belongs to you, not me. The people are yours, not mine. I ask that you supply me with the power, wisdom, ability, and strength to fulfill your purpose for me. Let people see you, be drawn to you, hear you, experience you and not me.
Okay, an element of pride and selfishness probably plays a part. And of course there's no doubt a little, "this is MY church" mentality. I can't leave out political and national influences or differing interpretations or traditions or countless other not really relevant issues.
With the challenges facing churches, people, local and state governments today, isn't it time we, as Ray Ortlund once said, let the church be the church. Isn't it time we stop and recognize the church was never meant to be an organization or business or country club or split into a multitude of denominations. Jesus is supposed to be the head of the church not some council or board or pastor or ladies group or influential family. Isn't it time we put away the catechism books and church disciplines and bylaws and pick up the Word of God as our only rule of faith and guidance. The church belongs to God, to Christ not me or anyone else. He paid for it, not me.
I've always been amused at the immaturity that exists in churches which cause people and groups to follow after, worship, fight for, defend certain pastors or teachers or even denominations. It's silly. Pointing accusatory fingers at other believers doesn't seem to jive with, "they will know that you are my followers by your love for one another."
God, I recognize the church that I pastor belongs to you, not me. The people are yours, not mine. I ask that you supply me with the power, wisdom, ability, and strength to fulfill your purpose for me. Let people see you, be drawn to you, hear you, experience you and not me.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
Daily Reflections on Mt. 7:24-29 (Actions Speak Louder Than Words)
Actions speak louder than words! The Sermon on the Mount is Jesus' practical instruction on the basic elements of The Law. In His teachings, Jesus talks about what leads to true happiness or contentment, marriage, divorce, anger, relationships, personal finance, anxiety, spiritual growth, prayer, grace, social and community responsibilities, and the way to a solid relationship with God. When He was done, His hearers went, "Wow! This guy teaches as one who knows what He's talking about. It really makes sense."
As Jesus concludes this message, He gives the well known illustration of the wise man who built his house on the rock versus the foolish man who built his house on the sand. What a huge difference it makes with all of life's twists and turns, challenges and crises, storms and swells. Jesus says those who build their life on and around His teachings will be able to endure.
But the key words in this simple illustration are "everyone who hears these words and puts them into practice." Hears and puts them into practice. Two issues: first, you have to be willing to listen to the words and teachings of Jesus. Many people just close their eyes and ears to what Jesus has to say. It's not cool. They're afraid they're going to have to give up their life, so they don't listen.
The second issue is another story. Jesus says you have to put them into practice. And that's where a lot of "followers of Christ" fail. They know all about the truths. They may have parts of it memorized. They've logged countless hours listening to sermons and teachings, etc. But the transition from ears to the heart never happens. It's one thing to ignore God's teaching. It's another thing to spend the time listening and never putting the truths into practice. Many believers look just like the world because even though they go to church and Bible study every week, they never translate those teachings into the everyday aspects of their lives. It's going in one ear and out the other. James says that we have to be both hearers and doers of the Word. Sitting in church week after week doesn't make you a Christian any more than sitting in your garage makes you a car.
God, I don't want to be all talk and no action, all blow and no go. Help my deeds match my talk. I want to be wise. Help me put your truths into practice every day.
As Jesus concludes this message, He gives the well known illustration of the wise man who built his house on the rock versus the foolish man who built his house on the sand. What a huge difference it makes with all of life's twists and turns, challenges and crises, storms and swells. Jesus says those who build their life on and around His teachings will be able to endure.
But the key words in this simple illustration are "everyone who hears these words and puts them into practice." Hears and puts them into practice. Two issues: first, you have to be willing to listen to the words and teachings of Jesus. Many people just close their eyes and ears to what Jesus has to say. It's not cool. They're afraid they're going to have to give up their life, so they don't listen.
The second issue is another story. Jesus says you have to put them into practice. And that's where a lot of "followers of Christ" fail. They know all about the truths. They may have parts of it memorized. They've logged countless hours listening to sermons and teachings, etc. But the transition from ears to the heart never happens. It's one thing to ignore God's teaching. It's another thing to spend the time listening and never putting the truths into practice. Many believers look just like the world because even though they go to church and Bible study every week, they never translate those teachings into the everyday aspects of their lives. It's going in one ear and out the other. James says that we have to be both hearers and doers of the Word. Sitting in church week after week doesn't make you a Christian any more than sitting in your garage makes you a car.
God, I don't want to be all talk and no action, all blow and no go. Help my deeds match my talk. I want to be wise. Help me put your truths into practice every day.
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Daily Reflections on Phil. 3:1; 4:4 (Learning to Rejoice)
"Rejoice in the Lord always, again I say rejoice." (clap, clap) "Rejoice in the Lord always, again I say rejoice." (clap, clap) "Rejoice, Rejoice, Again I say rejoice. Rejoice, Rejoice, Again I say rejoice." I loved singing those words as a kid because we did it in a round. Truth is I didn't enjoy the song because of the message or because I knew what it meant to rejoice in the Lord. I enjoyed it because of the way we sung it.
As I watch the worship wars in churches, I wonder how many are focused on the way a song is sung, the style, rhythm, beat, harmony, etc. It reminds me of the old American Bandstand show with Dick Clark. He'd introduce a new song and then have two people from the audience rate the song. "It has a good beat," or "I can dance to that," were familiar answers.
Sometimes I think we miss the point of corporate worship. We're more in love with our style of worship music than we are the Savior. We rejoice in the music instead of the Lord. Paul exhorts us to rejoice in the Lord. Music is a catalyst for mood and attitude, but it doesn't change your life, only Jesus through the Holy Spirit can do that.
What would our life be like if we were plugged into Jesus like we were our ipods, mp3's, itunes, etc. What would our daily attitude be like if each day we rose from our slumber and began rejoicing in the Lord, pursuing Him, celebrating our relationship with Him. What if we went through each day plugged into Jesus, listening to Him, relying on Him, consulting Him. Paul knew how to rejoice in the Lord. No wonder he could say he had learned to be content in all circumstances and could sing praise in prison at midnight.
God, I don't want to just know about you. I want to learn to really rejoice in you; to really celebrate you in my life. I want to be able to say truly that the joy of the Lord is my strength. I want face each day rejoicing in you no matter what it brings.
As I watch the worship wars in churches, I wonder how many are focused on the way a song is sung, the style, rhythm, beat, harmony, etc. It reminds me of the old American Bandstand show with Dick Clark. He'd introduce a new song and then have two people from the audience rate the song. "It has a good beat," or "I can dance to that," were familiar answers.
Sometimes I think we miss the point of corporate worship. We're more in love with our style of worship music than we are the Savior. We rejoice in the music instead of the Lord. Paul exhorts us to rejoice in the Lord. Music is a catalyst for mood and attitude, but it doesn't change your life, only Jesus through the Holy Spirit can do that.
What would our life be like if we were plugged into Jesus like we were our ipods, mp3's, itunes, etc. What would our daily attitude be like if each day we rose from our slumber and began rejoicing in the Lord, pursuing Him, celebrating our relationship with Him. What if we went through each day plugged into Jesus, listening to Him, relying on Him, consulting Him. Paul knew how to rejoice in the Lord. No wonder he could say he had learned to be content in all circumstances and could sing praise in prison at midnight.
God, I don't want to just know about you. I want to learn to really rejoice in you; to really celebrate you in my life. I want to be able to say truly that the joy of the Lord is my strength. I want face each day rejoicing in you no matter what it brings.
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Daily Reflections on Jn. 14:13-14; 15:7-8 (Is God a Genie?)
Is God a genie? We keep Him bottled up until we want something. Then we uncork the bottle, let God out and ask (or demand) God to grant our wish and we wait for Him to work His magic. When we're done with Him, we put Him back in His bottle until the next time we need or want something.
Many people treat God this way. They read a passage like this and think God will give them anything they ask. In fact there are a slew of religious teachers and showmen that proclaim the reason you're poor is that you haven't "named it and claimed it" in Jesus' name. Some expound you'd never have to be sick; proclaiming if you'd have enough faith God would give you instant healing.
As the owner of the cattle on a thousand hills, God certainly can take care of your financial needs. There's no question that God can and does miraculous healing. And Jesus did say ask Him anything in His name and He would give it to you. However, the genie approach to prayer is not what Jesus had in mind when He said those words.
If you read closely the context of these passages, you'll discover that Jesus is talking about passing on the mantle of fulfilling God's mission and purpose. He's going back to The Father. He's expecting the disciples to pick up the cause and pursue it with all their being, heart, soul, mind and strength. If their passion and purpose is to fulfill God's will and they are relying on God's power to fulfill it, God says ask away. If their desire is to accomplish God's task, with God's power, to God's glory, then go for it.
God, I don't want to treat you like a genie. You don't exist for me. I exist for you. I want to be Your servant. I want to be Your messenger and to accomplish Your purpose for me. I want people to see You, come to know You, experience Your grace and Your victory, to revel in Your glory and majesty, to bask in the light of Your presence, to love You.
Many people treat God this way. They read a passage like this and think God will give them anything they ask. In fact there are a slew of religious teachers and showmen that proclaim the reason you're poor is that you haven't "named it and claimed it" in Jesus' name. Some expound you'd never have to be sick; proclaiming if you'd have enough faith God would give you instant healing.
As the owner of the cattle on a thousand hills, God certainly can take care of your financial needs. There's no question that God can and does miraculous healing. And Jesus did say ask Him anything in His name and He would give it to you. However, the genie approach to prayer is not what Jesus had in mind when He said those words.
If you read closely the context of these passages, you'll discover that Jesus is talking about passing on the mantle of fulfilling God's mission and purpose. He's going back to The Father. He's expecting the disciples to pick up the cause and pursue it with all their being, heart, soul, mind and strength. If their passion and purpose is to fulfill God's will and they are relying on God's power to fulfill it, God says ask away. If their desire is to accomplish God's task, with God's power, to God's glory, then go for it.
God, I don't want to treat you like a genie. You don't exist for me. I exist for you. I want to be Your servant. I want to be Your messenger and to accomplish Your purpose for me. I want people to see You, come to know You, experience Your grace and Your victory, to revel in Your glory and majesty, to bask in the light of Your presence, to love You.
Monday, June 11, 2007
Daily Reflection on Ps. 14 (Suspicion, Cynicism, Safety and Refuge)
Selfishness! That's the result of a world that rejects or ignores God. It's the logical end for those who have chosen to be their own god or to act like God. In this "all about me" world we live in, even the most giving of people have to be cautious. I get tired of constantly trying to keep from being scammed or taken advantage of.
It's not just about locking my car or my house anymore. I'm wary of the auto mechanic, the repairman, the businessman, the advertiser, the salesman, virtually everyone with whom I do business. I have to protect myself against identity theft, spam, computer viruses, hackers, theft, arson, liability, false suits, bogus websites.
I confess, society has taught me to be suspicious of everyone and always on my guard, defensive. It causes me to be cynical about people and trust no one. I'm always attempting to decipher the angles others are working on me. I guess it causes me to become cold and demanding and self-protective. I'm less sensitive to needs and less responsive when I see one. I'm tired of expecting to be conned or ripped off every time I turn around.
I really feel the cry of King David in the last verse of this Psalm. Will it ever stop? Will I ever feel safe? And if I feel this way, what about the weak and defenseless who are prime targets for the purveyors and perpetrators of evil? Who will stand for the innocent and helpless? Who will minister to the poor, hungry, homeless, aged, defenseless?
The church should be a community that is a place of refuge and encouragement and giving. It should be a place where we can trust one another and share with one another and seek to meet each others' needs. The aged, weak, poor, abused, forgotten, addicted are all around us. Unfortunately we, The Church, have developed the attitude of letting the government take care of things and people.
God, I truly want to be a light shining in the darkness. I want to be salt that seasons and preserves. Forgive my cynical and suspicious spirit. Forgive my cold heart and blind eye. Show me how to be more giving, more gracious. I want to be your hands and feet and touch. I want people around me in need to find refuge, strength and security in You through me.
It's not just about locking my car or my house anymore. I'm wary of the auto mechanic, the repairman, the businessman, the advertiser, the salesman, virtually everyone with whom I do business. I have to protect myself against identity theft, spam, computer viruses, hackers, theft, arson, liability, false suits, bogus websites.
I confess, society has taught me to be suspicious of everyone and always on my guard, defensive. It causes me to be cynical about people and trust no one. I'm always attempting to decipher the angles others are working on me. I guess it causes me to become cold and demanding and self-protective. I'm less sensitive to needs and less responsive when I see one. I'm tired of expecting to be conned or ripped off every time I turn around.
I really feel the cry of King David in the last verse of this Psalm. Will it ever stop? Will I ever feel safe? And if I feel this way, what about the weak and defenseless who are prime targets for the purveyors and perpetrators of evil? Who will stand for the innocent and helpless? Who will minister to the poor, hungry, homeless, aged, defenseless?
The church should be a community that is a place of refuge and encouragement and giving. It should be a place where we can trust one another and share with one another and seek to meet each others' needs. The aged, weak, poor, abused, forgotten, addicted are all around us. Unfortunately we, The Church, have developed the attitude of letting the government take care of things and people.
God, I truly want to be a light shining in the darkness. I want to be salt that seasons and preserves. Forgive my cynical and suspicious spirit. Forgive my cold heart and blind eye. Show me how to be more giving, more gracious. I want to be your hands and feet and touch. I want people around me in need to find refuge, strength and security in You through me.
Saturday, June 9, 2007
Daily Reflections on Prov. 28:23
So when do you speak up and when do you keep your mouth shut? Sometimes that's hard to know as a friend. Most of us don't like conflict or confrontation. So we avoid it at all costs, even to the detriment of the person we love. Sometimes you do have let stuff go, but other times you can't let it slide.
Codependency is just as much a personal issue as alcoholism or drug addiction or any other self-destructive behavior pattern. Sometimes we don't want to address an issue with a loved one because we feel needed. We reinforce or ignore or perpetuate the ill behavior of others for our own strange sense of self esteem.
But more often than not, we don't want to speak up because we don't want to get involved or hurt someone's feelings or strain our relationship. We try to close our eyes and blindly just go on. Or we just avoid the person or conversation.
I don't like confrontation anymore than the next person. But I'd rather have my friends and family be honest with me than to let me pursue a potentially self-destructive behavior pattern or irritating habit. If I'm trailing a piece of TP when I leave the restroom or my fly is open or I've got toothpaste on my face, I appreciate when my loved ones enlighten me and save me from greater embarrassment.
Friends, loved ones who are really friends know when and how to speak up and when to let it pass. People who just tell me good stuff about me all the time don't really help me grow as a person. In fact, I can't really trust their opinion. I want people to be honest with me so I can grow, develop, etc. I'm not talking about constant criticism. I'm talking about a companion who encourages me through their honesty.
God, thanks for the friends around me who help me grow. Help me to be that kind of friend and companion, to know when and how to speak. Help me speak truth with love and to graciously receive the truth when shared with me.
Codependency is just as much a personal issue as alcoholism or drug addiction or any other self-destructive behavior pattern. Sometimes we don't want to address an issue with a loved one because we feel needed. We reinforce or ignore or perpetuate the ill behavior of others for our own strange sense of self esteem.
But more often than not, we don't want to speak up because we don't want to get involved or hurt someone's feelings or strain our relationship. We try to close our eyes and blindly just go on. Or we just avoid the person or conversation.
I don't like confrontation anymore than the next person. But I'd rather have my friends and family be honest with me than to let me pursue a potentially self-destructive behavior pattern or irritating habit. If I'm trailing a piece of TP when I leave the restroom or my fly is open or I've got toothpaste on my face, I appreciate when my loved ones enlighten me and save me from greater embarrassment.
Friends, loved ones who are really friends know when and how to speak up and when to let it pass. People who just tell me good stuff about me all the time don't really help me grow as a person. In fact, I can't really trust their opinion. I want people to be honest with me so I can grow, develop, etc. I'm not talking about constant criticism. I'm talking about a companion who encourages me through their honesty.
God, thanks for the friends around me who help me grow. Help me to be that kind of friend and companion, to know when and how to speak. Help me speak truth with love and to graciously receive the truth when shared with me.
Friday, June 8, 2007
Daily Reflections on 3 John 2-4
What is truth? From varying philosophies, to different religions, to the multitude of media outlets, to Wikipedia seems like truth is sometimes a hard thing to get our hands on. The internet has exploded the forums for scams and fraud. Even our former Presidents have redefined "is" and "crook."
Who do you believe and how do you know what's right? Jesus claimed to be the way, the truth and the life. He said He was the only way to God, the Father. Some have doubted His claim and sought to discredit or discount Him. Others have flat out denied Him. Still others have bent His truths to their own liking.
But as a friend of mine once said, "Truth is truth no matter if anyone believes it." For years courts would have one put their hand on the Bible and swear to tell the truth. Why? Because God's Word is the standard of truth. God's truth, found in His Word, was given to us for our benefit. Living by the truths of God's Word plays out to our advantage. God is interested in our health and wellbeing. When we fail to live by or adhere to the standards of God's teaching, we have to face the consequences.
Living by the truth of God's Word is not about following a list of rules and regulations. It's learning how to build and grow in my relationships with my spouse, my kids, my parents, my friends, my coworkers, my bosses. It's learning how to keep from screwing up my life or how to restore it once I've had the train wreck. It's about learning how to handle my finances, about finding my purpose, about planning for my future.
God, I want to be found faithful to your truth. Help me live day by day in your truth, Your Word. Thanks for shining your light on my path to show me the way and keep me from stumbling.
Who do you believe and how do you know what's right? Jesus claimed to be the way, the truth and the life. He said He was the only way to God, the Father. Some have doubted His claim and sought to discredit or discount Him. Others have flat out denied Him. Still others have bent His truths to their own liking.
But as a friend of mine once said, "Truth is truth no matter if anyone believes it." For years courts would have one put their hand on the Bible and swear to tell the truth. Why? Because God's Word is the standard of truth. God's truth, found in His Word, was given to us for our benefit. Living by the truths of God's Word plays out to our advantage. God is interested in our health and wellbeing. When we fail to live by or adhere to the standards of God's teaching, we have to face the consequences.
Living by the truth of God's Word is not about following a list of rules and regulations. It's learning how to build and grow in my relationships with my spouse, my kids, my parents, my friends, my coworkers, my bosses. It's learning how to keep from screwing up my life or how to restore it once I've had the train wreck. It's about learning how to handle my finances, about finding my purpose, about planning for my future.
God, I want to be found faithful to your truth. Help me live day by day in your truth, Your Word. Thanks for shining your light on my path to show me the way and keep me from stumbling.
Thursday, June 7, 2007
Daily Reflections on Phil. 2:12-13
Why is it always easier to behave like a follower of Christ when I'm in a gathering of other committed followers of Christ? It seems when I'm away from the group, the old me begins to emerge. When I'm studying, sharing, praising God with other believers I find myself drawing closer to God. When I'm just doing my normal routine, I sense God's presence a lot less. Okay, I often don't even think about or acknowledge God or my relationship with Him.
To be honest, that's probably true for most of us and is typical of most relationships. I love my wife and am committed to her. But when I'm involved in my daily routine or business, I'm not overwhelmed with thoughts and emotions of affection. When I'm with her, I seek to enjoy and celebrate our relationship. However, if I don't take time and invest in our relationship, in her personally, then my relationship decays.
In these verses, a lot of followers of Jesus struggle with the idea of "working out salvation." Many act as if they have to "work for their salvation" instead of working out what God worked in. Working out our salvation is like rubbing in the salve that God has applied to our wound. Just like any relationship or friendship, when I'm with that person, I have a greater cause to work on developing our relationship/friendship. I consciously work at not offending but pleasing my friend. When we're not together, I'm not as cognizant of my words or actions.
Recognizing I'm always in God's presence and allowing Him to work in me is the key to growing in Christ. If I'm to carry out God's will for my life, I have to allow God's Spirit to work in me. God, I want to be open to Your Spirit's leading, prompting, correction and guidance. Help me be aware of your continual presence.
To be honest, that's probably true for most of us and is typical of most relationships. I love my wife and am committed to her. But when I'm involved in my daily routine or business, I'm not overwhelmed with thoughts and emotions of affection. When I'm with her, I seek to enjoy and celebrate our relationship. However, if I don't take time and invest in our relationship, in her personally, then my relationship decays.
In these verses, a lot of followers of Jesus struggle with the idea of "working out salvation." Many act as if they have to "work for their salvation" instead of working out what God worked in. Working out our salvation is like rubbing in the salve that God has applied to our wound. Just like any relationship or friendship, when I'm with that person, I have a greater cause to work on developing our relationship/friendship. I consciously work at not offending but pleasing my friend. When we're not together, I'm not as cognizant of my words or actions.
Recognizing I'm always in God's presence and allowing Him to work in me is the key to growing in Christ. If I'm to carry out God's will for my life, I have to allow God's Spirit to work in me. God, I want to be open to Your Spirit's leading, prompting, correction and guidance. Help me be aware of your continual presence.
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Daily Reflections on Lev. 25:8-38
How would the Year of Jubilee work today? To be honest I think Americans would rack up as much debt possible in the couple years leading up to Jubilee knowing that their debts would be forgiven. I'm sure there'd be plenty of scheming trying to beat the system. I'm also guessing the rise of identity theft would go through the roof in the 48th and 49th years.
Why did God institute the Sabbatical Year and the Year of Jubilee in the Old Testament. Probably for several reasons: To replenish the nutrients in the soil; balance the economy; teach personal stewardship or financial planning; accountability; give second chances; etc. But I think the biggest reason was to allow God's people to keep focused on the big picture, dependence on Him and His provision. It calls His children to realize the temporal nature of the things of this world and the eternal nature of the spiritual world. It causes His people to focus on that which really matters, a relationship with Him and the people around us.
Throughout this passage there is a constant underlying beat of being fair and caring for the less fortunate among us. Many people are poor financial managers. Others face devastating crises. Some have struggled with crippling health issues or aging or mental illness or unfortunate circumstances that has created an insurmountable need.
Okay, maybe the Sabbatical Years and the Year of Jubilee were a part of God's welfare system. But I think it's more than that. I think God is calling all His people to be aware of the people around us, sensitive to their needs. He wants us to realize our possessions aren't really ours anyway. That we are vessels, instruments, stewards of His resources. I can't help but wonder why I a tendency to hold onto stuff or try to possess stuff. Things of lasting value are the acts of charity, giving, assisting others. All I know is that focusing on accumulating stuff dampens my relationship with God. When I give, serve, share, open my home, etc., I'm somehow drawn closer to God's heart. "This world is not my home, I'm just a passin' thru. My treasures are laid up somewhere beyond the blue..." God, when you return I want to hear you say, "Well done!" I just want to be your vessel, your instrument, the conduit for people to experience your love and grace.
Why did God institute the Sabbatical Year and the Year of Jubilee in the Old Testament. Probably for several reasons: To replenish the nutrients in the soil; balance the economy; teach personal stewardship or financial planning; accountability; give second chances; etc. But I think the biggest reason was to allow God's people to keep focused on the big picture, dependence on Him and His provision. It calls His children to realize the temporal nature of the things of this world and the eternal nature of the spiritual world. It causes His people to focus on that which really matters, a relationship with Him and the people around us.
Throughout this passage there is a constant underlying beat of being fair and caring for the less fortunate among us. Many people are poor financial managers. Others face devastating crises. Some have struggled with crippling health issues or aging or mental illness or unfortunate circumstances that has created an insurmountable need.
Okay, maybe the Sabbatical Years and the Year of Jubilee were a part of God's welfare system. But I think it's more than that. I think God is calling all His people to be aware of the people around us, sensitive to their needs. He wants us to realize our possessions aren't really ours anyway. That we are vessels, instruments, stewards of His resources. I can't help but wonder why I a tendency to hold onto stuff or try to possess stuff. Things of lasting value are the acts of charity, giving, assisting others. All I know is that focusing on accumulating stuff dampens my relationship with God. When I give, serve, share, open my home, etc., I'm somehow drawn closer to God's heart. "This world is not my home, I'm just a passin' thru. My treasures are laid up somewhere beyond the blue..." God, when you return I want to hear you say, "Well done!" I just want to be your vessel, your instrument, the conduit for people to experience your love and grace.
Tuesday, June 5, 2007
Daily Reflections on Rom. 15:1-5
Maturity is about giving up for the sake of others. Babies cry and scream until we figure out what it is they need and statisfy that need. That need could be hunger, fear, a diaper change, to be burped or just simply to be held. As parents, we give up our sleep, freedom, time, Grey's, 24, whatever to care for our child in need. That sacrifice is made in changing ways as our child grows to adulthood and beyond. We give whether or not they appreciate us or understand us or the decisions we make in their behalf.
As I reflect on The Church today, I think we would do well to heed the words of Paul here in Rom. 15:1-4. The "Me First" society we live in is very much a part of the American Church. Our programming has catered to the "Me First" mentality. Our organizational and leadership structures have fallen into the "Me First" trap. Our attitudes as church members (or consumers) have been captured by the "Me First" syndrome.
Okay, I expect the world to behave that way and I have grown up in the "Me" Generation. But aren't we, The Church, Followers or Ambassadors of Christ supposed to act and think differently than the world? Aren't we supposed to model Jesus and grow to be like Him? As a Follower of Christ, a Christian, haven't I signed on for humble servanthood? Didn't I give up my rights when I gave my life to Christ? If that's all true, why is there such a selfish cry for "my way" in churches? Music, worship styles, dress codes, power struggles, what's that all about?
Paul says we who are strong/mature ought to bear with the failings of the weak. Each of us should seek to build up his/her neighbors, personally and spiritually. We should model what we've learned about spiritual maturity to others. God, I don't want to be known for my "Me First" temper tantrums. I want to grow to be more like you, to demonstrate spiritual maturity not piety. God give me the wisdom and strength to build up the weak and my neighbors.
As I reflect on The Church today, I think we would do well to heed the words of Paul here in Rom. 15:1-4. The "Me First" society we live in is very much a part of the American Church. Our programming has catered to the "Me First" mentality. Our organizational and leadership structures have fallen into the "Me First" trap. Our attitudes as church members (or consumers) have been captured by the "Me First" syndrome.
Okay, I expect the world to behave that way and I have grown up in the "Me" Generation. But aren't we, The Church, Followers or Ambassadors of Christ supposed to act and think differently than the world? Aren't we supposed to model Jesus and grow to be like Him? As a Follower of Christ, a Christian, haven't I signed on for humble servanthood? Didn't I give up my rights when I gave my life to Christ? If that's all true, why is there such a selfish cry for "my way" in churches? Music, worship styles, dress codes, power struggles, what's that all about?
Paul says we who are strong/mature ought to bear with the failings of the weak. Each of us should seek to build up his/her neighbors, personally and spiritually. We should model what we've learned about spiritual maturity to others. God, I don't want to be known for my "Me First" temper tantrums. I want to grow to be more like you, to demonstrate spiritual maturity not piety. God give me the wisdom and strength to build up the weak and my neighbors.
Monday, June 4, 2007
Daily Reflections on Prov. 27:6-10
There is no question that God made us for relationships. No man or woman is an island. God is relational and since we're made in His image He created us as relational beings. In other words, we need people in our life. It's true that because each of are individually crafted, the amount of friends we need around us differs for all of us. However, all of us need some people in our life.
I've often heard that friends can be fickle or are fickle. That's probably true to some extent, since none of us are perfect. Let's be honest, we all have our moments or days or weeks or...I'll just stop there. But all said and done, it's because we're all fickle and inconsistent at times that we need friends.
The recent boom of sites like MySpace and FaceBook and Xanga are a demonstration of our need and desire to be connected to others. Not only do we want connection with others, we want deeper intimacy with others. We want to love and be loved. We want to share with someone our thoughts, hurts, joys, and challenges. And of course we want others to trust us enough to open themselves up to us.
We do draw a sense of worth and value from our interaction with others. That's why we need friends. Friends help us sort things out in life. They keep us on track. They help us with perspective. The keep us motivated and encouraged and supported. Friends laugh with us, cry with us and add value to us.
In our high speed, fast paced, high tech society, there is a desperate need to genuinely connect with others. With hectic schedules and tons of pressure, seems like we invest very little time in relationships. God help me focus on the people in my life. Teach me, show me how to be a friend that sticks closer than a brother.
I've often heard that friends can be fickle or are fickle. That's probably true to some extent, since none of us are perfect. Let's be honest, we all have our moments or days or weeks or...I'll just stop there. But all said and done, it's because we're all fickle and inconsistent at times that we need friends.
The recent boom of sites like MySpace and FaceBook and Xanga are a demonstration of our need and desire to be connected to others. Not only do we want connection with others, we want deeper intimacy with others. We want to love and be loved. We want to share with someone our thoughts, hurts, joys, and challenges. And of course we want others to trust us enough to open themselves up to us.
We do draw a sense of worth and value from our interaction with others. That's why we need friends. Friends help us sort things out in life. They keep us on track. They help us with perspective. The keep us motivated and encouraged and supported. Friends laugh with us, cry with us and add value to us.
In our high speed, fast paced, high tech society, there is a desperate need to genuinely connect with others. With hectic schedules and tons of pressure, seems like we invest very little time in relationships. God help me focus on the people in my life. Teach me, show me how to be a friend that sticks closer than a brother.
Saturday, June 2, 2007
Daily Reflections on Jn. 15:18-21; Rev. 2:8-11
Why is there such a dichotomy between the world which God created and the followers of Jesus whom God recreated in Christ? It seems that both were created in His image; both were created for an intimate relationship with Him; both long for redemption (according to Rom. 8). So why the enmity between the two worlds?
Ultimately the answer lies in the fact the world, mankind, that God created rejected Him to become their own God. That's the temptation Satan placed before Eve, "Eat of this fruit. Your eyes will be opened and you shall be as God." Since that time all of mankind has made the same choice. With that rejection comes separation, which leads to the enmity. The world now has a new ruler, Satan.
Followers of Jesus are called out of the world, to live by a different standard, a higher standard, a selfless standard. The Bible term is "holiness," which simply means, "set apart for God's purpose." Living to that end and purpose sometimes requires separating ourselves from the norm, taking a stand, refusing to participate in unethical business practices or to go along with the crowd/peers. Such actions often bring conflict, confrontation and conviction.
The hedonistic, self-pleasing, self-serving attitude of the world is in direct opposition to the self-sacrificing, giving, serving attitude to which God calls His followers. The world persecutes the standard of God to protect its own self interest.
The more I grow in Christ, the more I find myself in opposition to the world's pursuit. The more I'm open to the world's persuasion, the more self-serving I become. Nobody wants to be rejected. Nobody wants to be persecuted. Everyone wants to be accepted and loved and valued. So my dilemma is to cave to the world or live fully to Christ. God promises me acceptance, love, purpose, meaning, eternal life, a crown of life if I remain faithful to Him. Surely with God's help I can withstand the blows of persecution. I'm reminded that Jesus said, "Greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world." God, I'm hanging onto that promise. Help me withstand the fiery darts of Satan, to live fully unto you. Help me to be the light in the darkness that shines with your love and good news.
Ultimately the answer lies in the fact the world, mankind, that God created rejected Him to become their own God. That's the temptation Satan placed before Eve, "Eat of this fruit. Your eyes will be opened and you shall be as God." Since that time all of mankind has made the same choice. With that rejection comes separation, which leads to the enmity. The world now has a new ruler, Satan.
Followers of Jesus are called out of the world, to live by a different standard, a higher standard, a selfless standard. The Bible term is "holiness," which simply means, "set apart for God's purpose." Living to that end and purpose sometimes requires separating ourselves from the norm, taking a stand, refusing to participate in unethical business practices or to go along with the crowd/peers. Such actions often bring conflict, confrontation and conviction.
The hedonistic, self-pleasing, self-serving attitude of the world is in direct opposition to the self-sacrificing, giving, serving attitude to which God calls His followers. The world persecutes the standard of God to protect its own self interest.
The more I grow in Christ, the more I find myself in opposition to the world's pursuit. The more I'm open to the world's persuasion, the more self-serving I become. Nobody wants to be rejected. Nobody wants to be persecuted. Everyone wants to be accepted and loved and valued. So my dilemma is to cave to the world or live fully to Christ. God promises me acceptance, love, purpose, meaning, eternal life, a crown of life if I remain faithful to Him. Surely with God's help I can withstand the blows of persecution. I'm reminded that Jesus said, "Greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world." God, I'm hanging onto that promise. Help me withstand the fiery darts of Satan, to live fully unto you. Help me to be the light in the darkness that shines with your love and good news.
Friday, June 1, 2007
Daily Reflections on Phil. 2:5-11
Jesus said whoever wants to be great among you must become the least, whoever wants to be first must be the last, whoever wants to become great must become the servant of all. He didn't just say those words, He modeled them. The description of Jesus in Phil. 2:5-11 are my favorite of Christ's nature and heart. The image painted of Jesus as God emptying Himself, voiding His rights as God is unfathomable.
As I read these words, I'm drawn to Jesus. There is just something magnetic about Him. It's almost a picture of the hero who throws himself in the fray of battle. There's a big explosion. The enemy is defeated yet it appears our hero has given his life for the victory. Then suddenly, out of the ashes of ruin and destruction rises our hero. Everyone rushes to him as he stands victoriously over the rubble.
That inspires me. Forget Spiderman, I want to be like Jesus. Yet to be like Jesus means total humility. It means voiding myself of my wants, ways, agendas, and selfish spirit. Can I really do that? I confess, I'm a stubborn, selfish pig sometimes. I want what I want when I want it. I can be dogmatic, demanding, demeaning, manipulative, moody, etc. How do I empty myself like Jesus?
The answer: Practice being a servant. Become vulnerable. Wash some feet. Offer your time to help someone else. Turn over the remote. Let someone go ahead of you in line. Watch your neighbors kids so they can go to the store or on a date. Get a cup of coffee for your coworker. Find ways to express genuine concern for people around you.
Learning humility becomes a lifestyle. It is antithetical to our culture which says, "To become great climb over everyone you can, dominate, out maneuver, promote yourself." But Jesus said and modeled that you have to descend into greatness. Lord, thank you for promising to lift us up, to exalt us like you did Jesus when we humble ourselves in your eyes.
As I read these words, I'm drawn to Jesus. There is just something magnetic about Him. It's almost a picture of the hero who throws himself in the fray of battle. There's a big explosion. The enemy is defeated yet it appears our hero has given his life for the victory. Then suddenly, out of the ashes of ruin and destruction rises our hero. Everyone rushes to him as he stands victoriously over the rubble.
That inspires me. Forget Spiderman, I want to be like Jesus. Yet to be like Jesus means total humility. It means voiding myself of my wants, ways, agendas, and selfish spirit. Can I really do that? I confess, I'm a stubborn, selfish pig sometimes. I want what I want when I want it. I can be dogmatic, demanding, demeaning, manipulative, moody, etc. How do I empty myself like Jesus?
The answer: Practice being a servant. Become vulnerable. Wash some feet. Offer your time to help someone else. Turn over the remote. Let someone go ahead of you in line. Watch your neighbors kids so they can go to the store or on a date. Get a cup of coffee for your coworker. Find ways to express genuine concern for people around you.
Learning humility becomes a lifestyle. It is antithetical to our culture which says, "To become great climb over everyone you can, dominate, out maneuver, promote yourself." But Jesus said and modeled that you have to descend into greatness. Lord, thank you for promising to lift us up, to exalt us like you did Jesus when we humble ourselves in your eyes.
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